Wednesday, January 26, 2011

Bad behavior and hurtful things said

This week has been sort of tough. TC's behavior has been very NOT GOOD! And stressful! He is very high strung and antsy and upsets easily.

He just got upset and told me "Go live in your other house with your real family."
WTH? I told him, "You are my family and so is Dad and Sara so I'm not going anywhere. And you need to be nicer to me, I am your Mom and I love you more than anybody in this world."

Of course after he said that to me, he said some other ugly things, and I told him he is NOT going to treat me like that. Afterwards, when he calmed down, he was remorseful and apologized. I think sometimes in the heat of the moment, he verbally attacks me. I am trying to teach him that it is NOT okay.

Sigh. I am ready for the weekend.

3 comments:

Christy said...

My brothers often treated my mother like this. Maybe is a boy thing? The good news is that they outgrew this horrible, hurtful behavior.

Casdok said...

Difficult. I hope things get better soon.

Mommie That Gets It said...

I am so sorry you are going through a tough time. I wish I could offer some advice. I can cuddle Austin and make pretty much anything better, so I am very lucky. I can send you a BIG HUG and hope that things get better for you and TC. *HUGS* Heather