I was going to type out a post about another recent comment I got in regards to my parenting of TC. Here is the thing, I am not going to waste my time because some vulture wants to go for the jugular on my parenting skills.
Let me just say that:
When I see my son's face smiling and hear him singing happily...I am grateful.
When I am able to cut his hair on the front porch (something that used to be horrid), I am grateful.
When I see his wonderful drawings of Spiderman...I am grateful.
When I have an IEP without crying .....I am grateful.
I can walk into a store and see a parent struggling with a tantruming and I can be compassionate and non-judging. And I can see that they are grateful for the smile, or the nod, or the look on my face.
I can get frustrated with things, especially TC's behavior but I stick it out and pray for a better tomorrow.
And I continue to do my best even if some days my best does not feel good enough.
Thankfully I have some great people who understand what it is like day in and day out and those who want to judge me can kiss my you know what!